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Communicating with Men

What Your Mother Should Have Taught You but Didn't Know Either

Dear Sister,

If you’ve ever felt like you're speaking a language he doesn’t understand—like no matter how much you love, explain, or give, there’s a gap between your heart and his—you’re not alone.

I wrote this book for you. For the woman who longs to be met, to feel cherished, to stop wondering if she’s asking for too much just by needing to feel seen.

Men aren’t broken. They’re not emotionally shallow, careless, or incapable of connection. But they are different. They are biologically wired in ways that most of us were never taught to understand—and so we struggle. We misread silence as indifference. We see focus as avoidance. We feel dismissed when really, we were speaking in a code they never learned.

Communicating with Men is not about manipulation or playing games. It’s about finally understanding the operating system that governs the way most men think, feel, and respond—so you can stop taking everything personally and start creating real connection.

This is your invitation to step out of frustration and into clarity.
To speak to him in a way he actually hears.
To understand why he pulls away, and how to bring him close again.
To stop wondering if you’re lovable—and start experiencing the relationship you truly want.

You don’t have to try so hard to be enough. You don’t have to keep giving more, fixing yourself, or silently carrying the weight of the relationship.

There is a better way. And it begins with understanding. Let’s walk that path together.

With love,
Shelle

Inside You’ll Discover:

  • Why he doesn’t respond the way you expect—and how to stop feeling hurt by it 
  • The concept of “Hunting Mode”—a biological key to why men seem so focused, and how you can work with it instead of against it 
  • How men experience and express emotion—and how to create safety for deeper intimacy without forcing or fixing
  • Simple scripts and phrases that open the door to connection, motivation, and genuine partnership
  • The two things that motivate men most—and how to inspire devotion without ever begging for love
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What Reader's Are Saying

 

5.0 out of 5 stars  Concepts that will change you!

Reviewed in the United States on March 23, 2025

 Her writing is easy to read and the concepts easy to understand. I relate to her real-life scenarios, examples and I loved the scripts to help you see how to use them. Reading this book has made me slow down to take notice of the concepts she outlines coming into play in my interactions. It will take some practice but I feel confident that I am seeing and understanding men in a different way than I did prior to reading this book.

A thoughtful and careful writer, Crow’s intention is to improve your life and relationships. Her encouragement to see beyond the surface of others and to dive deeper into ones self and ones inner thoughts as a way to help deepen conversations and connections is insightful and brings a new awareness to the ways we relate to others.
 
 
5.0 out of 5 stars  6 star Review
Reviewed in the United States on March 19, 2025

If I could have given this book 6 stars I would have. Funny & candid, this book is spot on. I laughed, I cried, I related to every story in one way or another. The author really nailed the differences between men & woman, but in new ways that I hadn’t thought about before. Whether you’re in a new relationship, an old one, or just trying to figure out how to understand the men in your life, you will benefit from reading this book. I absolutely love her insight, wit, and easy to read style. Every woman & young girl should own this book. I even got one for my mom. ;)
 
 
5.0 out of 5 stars  Review of Communicating with Men
Reviewed in the United States on March 14, 2025

I can't express how grateful I am to have come across Communicating with Men by Shelle Crow. This book has been a game-changer for my relationship with my life partner. For years, I struggled to understand how to effectively communicate with him, often feeling misunderstood or frustrated. But this book has given me the tools and insights I needed to strengthen our bond in ways I never imagined.

Shelle Crow does an incredible job of breaking down the differences in communication styles between men and women. The book is full of practical tips and real-life examples that make it easy to understand why certain conversations can be so challenging. What I love most is how Crow doesn't just point out the issues but offers simple, actionable strategies to improve communication. It's not about changing him—it's about understanding him better and learning how to speak his language.

Since reading the book, I've noticed a remarkable shift in our relationship. My partner and I are communicating more openly, without the tension and misunderstandings that used to cloud our conversations. I feel more confident in how I approach difficult discussions, and he appreciates the way I now express myself. This book has taught me how to listen more attentively, how to give him space when needed, and how to approach sensitive topics with empathy rather than frustration.

What I love most is that Communicating with Men has helped me to see my partner in a new light—understanding his thought processes and emotional responses has allowed me to be more patient and supportive. It's like we've finally found common ground that has made our connection even stronger.

If you're looking to improve your relationship and communication with the man in your life, I highly recommend this book. It’s an eye-opener and a must-read for anyone who wants to create a deeper, more harmonious bond with their partner. Thank you, Shelle Crow, for such a transformative and enlightening read!